Friday, January 20, 2012

Progression

Starting from Day 1.... it goes so quickly.

1 Day - with his poor little squished head

3 Weeks

 1 Month - the colic begins

 2 Months - it's almost Christmas

 3 Months - a smile!


And yes, my husband is a HUGE Leafs Fan.... clearly I need to get some more Flames gear.


Thursday, January 12, 2012

12 years ago

12 years ago I woke up in the sweet Swiss village of Avully .. I was hired to be a nanny to 3 poorly behaved children - fast forward 12 years and now I have my very own.  Time really does fly.


Wednesday, January 11, 2012

2011...

Like most people, the past few days  - or rather weeks... this post is slightly late.....I looked back at how 2011 shaped up.  It was certainly one of my busiest and most dramatic years to date...

Jan
  • Began the New Year on the right foot with a Resolution Run, actually it was on New Year's Eve, but that's almost 2011... 
  • Started a job at the President's office of a Government agency.  It turned out to be somewhat like "The Devil Wears Prada" but was a very interesting kick off to the year.  I learned how particular the President was with his coffee, how to print documents and hand deliver them to someone sitting 10 feet from my desk (please note the sarcasm), but hey, it paid the rent, so yay!
  • We started building our house!  Well, we put money down to buy the house and signed the contract, the construction didn't begin until June....
Feb
  • Ended said "Devil's Wears Prada" job and started my dream job at the logistical support command of the Military.  It was nice to be back in uniform on a daily basis and get paid a lot more, but the learning curve was STEEP.  Suffice it to say, I was in a wee bit over my head.
  • I also found out I was pregnant shortly after starting my job... yikes!  Cue morning sickness, joy.
March
  • I made it back home to Calgary to see my friends... passed on the fun baby news :)
  • Missed out on a military ORCA trip to Victoria, boo :(
April
  • Pete and I had a lovely weekend out in Mont Tremblant.  Very romantic and the best Spaghetti Carbonara I've ever had... yum!
  • Made it back to Sharon for Pete's family Easter celebration, and had a special afternoon tea at the Old Mill
May
  • Cruise time... first time on a cruise, first time to the Caribbean - very, very fun.  Maybe next year we can hit up the Baltic?
June
  • Still on the cruise, trying desperately to stretch out the week.
  • House construction begins!
  • All the way at the end of the month a few friends and I headed out for a shopping trip to the outlet's outside of New York - amazing deals!

July
  • Last trip to Calgary with Pete before the baby arrives!  Spent the week showing Pete the wonders of the Stampede and Spruce Meadows... he's a good sport :)
  • A trip to Kingston to attend the Baptism of our darling God Daughter... so cute!
  • Pete turned the big 3-0!
August
  •  Baby Shower!  My fantastic sister in law threw me a lovely baby shower.  All of Pete's female relatives were there and we had such a great time.
September
  • I turned the big 3-0!  Yikes!  
  • My last day of work.... a week early as it turns out.  My blood pressure was up and down, and up and down, and up and down.... so my Dr decided it was best to rest at home.
  • Continued to be in and out of the hospital with the threat of induction.... at the end of the month we still didn't have a baby yet... boo
October
  • More hospital time... and finally on the 17th of October after 44 hours of (mostly back) labour, and an emergency c section, we had our darling baby boy.  I can't say it was a wonderful, easy, magical experience - it was awful, excruciatingly painful and one of the worst things I have ever had to endure.  Thank goodness he is the cutest thing I have ever, ever seen.... 
  • Cue the flood of relatives to our TINY apartment... I was very thankful for the help, how do single parents do it???
November
  • Busiest month by far.... never again will I have a newborn, move into a new house with furniture coming from across the country and more furniture from the apartment, with your husband working.  However, once we were in the house, we were good to go.
December
  • Hosted the Sands' family Christmas with my Mom at the new place.... busy, busy, busy, but awesome and the extra hands to help with our colicky baby was more than welcome.
So there we go, 2011 in review... typed as fast as I could while Will sleeps... Happy New Year!





Wednesday, December 14, 2011

One and Only?

Echoing this blogger's thoughts - and after an especially hectic morning, having a newborn in a town where you have zero family is less than ideal.  We have a few friends who live in Ottawa (one great couple who live around the corner) and luckily Pete has been working from home and can help a lot, but it is still quite tough.  We are still in the "we can't imagine doing this all over again" stage, so for the time being it seems as though William is likely going to be a single child.  He's been a good baby but is sliding into colic territory and is testing our sanity.  Parents must eventually forget how difficult the first few months are, otherwise I know I wouldn't be here (having 2 sisters).  I just keep thinking about how it would be later in life, only one kiddo running around... and even later - only one to come home and visit.  Although, having only one would mean we could help him have a lot more experiences. Tough decision I think, but I guess we'll have to see how it goes.

Some more fun news - Sunday night my Mom flies over form Calgary (our first Christmas together in 4 years) and Pete's family is coming up for Christmas so thankfully we'll have some help soon.  We even have a babysitter for our anniversary next Monday - a date with my husband, yay!  I think we are going all out this time, sushi dinner and a movie :)  Sherlock Holmes here we comes!

Hopefully I can unpack a bit more between now and Christmas (with my one free hand) - the house is finally looking more and more lived in, and we even had company over for coffee and muffins yesterday!  

Happy Wednesday






Saturday, December 10, 2011

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thursday's Photo


It's still a bit big, but I couldn't resist trying it out.

Friday, November 11, 2011

Remembrance




Langemarck at Ypres

William Wilfred Campbell

THIS is the ballad of Langemarck, 
  A story of glory and might; 
Of the vast Hun horde, and Canada’s part 
  In the great grim fight. 
 
It was April fair on the Flanders Fields,
  But the dreadest April then 
That ever the years, in their fateful flight, 
  Had brought to this world of men. 
 
North and east, a monster wall, 
  The mighty Hun ranks lay, 
With fort on fort, and iron-ringed trench, 
  Menacing, grim and gray. 
 
And south and west, like a serpent of fire, 
  Serried the British lines, 
And in between, the dying and dead,
And the stench of blood, and the trampled mud, 
  On the fair, sweet Belgian vines. 
 
And far to the eastward, harnessed and taut, 
  Like a scimitar, shining and keen, 
Gleaming out of that ominous gloom,  
  Old France’s hosts were seen. 
 
When out of the grim Hun lines one night, 
  There rolled a sinister smoke;— 
A strange, weird cloud, like a pale, green shroud, 
  And death lurked in its cloak. 
 
On a fiend-like wind it curled along 
  Over the brave French ranks, 
Like a monster tree its vapours spread, 
  In hideous, burning banks 
Of poisonous fumes that scorched the night 
  With their sulphurous demon danks. 
 
And men went mad with horror, and fled 
  From that terrible, strangling death, 
That seemed to sear both body and soul 
  With its baleful, flaming breath. 
 
Till even the little dark men of the south, 
  Who feared neither God nor man, 
Those fierce, wild fighters of Afric’s steppes, 
  Broke their battalions and ran:— 
 
Ran as they never had run before, 
  Gasping, and fainting for breath; 
For they knew ’t was no human foe that slew; 
  And that hideous smoke meant death. 
 
Then red in the reek of that evil cloud, 
  The Hun swept over the plain;   
And the murderer’s dirk did its monster work, 
  ’Mid the scythe-like shrapnel rain; 
 
Till it seemed that at last the brute Hun hordes 
  Had broken that wall of steel; 
And that soon, through this breach in the freeman’s dyke,
  His trampling hosts would wheel;— 
 
And sweep to the south in ravaging might, 
  And Europe’s peoples again 
Be trodden under the tyrant’s heel, 
  Like herds, in the Prussian pen.  
 
But in that line on the British right, 
  There massed a corps amain, 
Of men who hailed from a far west land 
  Of mountain and forest and plain; 
 
Men new to war and its dreadest deeds,
  But noble and staunch and true; 
Men of the open, East and West, 
  Brew of old Britain’s brew. 
 
These were the men out there that night, 
  When Hell loomed close ahead; 
Who saw that pitiful, hideous rout, 
  And breathed those gases dread; 
While some went under and some went mad; 
  But never a man there fled. 
 
For the word was “Canada,” theirs to fight,
  And keep on fighting still;— 
Britain said, fight, and fight they would, 
Though the Devil himself in sulphurous mood 
  Came over that hideous hill. 
 
Yea, stubborn, they stood, that hero band,
  Where no soul hoped to live; 
For five, ’gainst eighty thousand men, 
  Were hopeless odds to give. 
 
Yea, fought they on! ’T was Friday eve, 
  When that demon gas drove down;  
’T was Saturday eve that saw them still 
  Grimly holding their own; 
 
Sunday, Monday, saw them yet, 
  A steadily lessening band, 
With “no surrender” in their hearts, 
  But the dream of a far-off land, 
 
Where mother and sister and love would weep 
  For the hushed heart lying still;— 
But never a thought but to do their part, 
  And work the Empire’s will.
 
Ringed round, hemmed in, and back to back, 
  They fought there under the dark, 
And won for Empire, God and Right, 
  At grim, red Langemarck. 
 
Wonderful battles have shaken this world, 
  Since the Dawn-God overthrew Dis; 
Wonderful struggles of right against wrong, 
Sung in the rhymes of the world’s great song, 
  But never a greater than this. 
 
Bannockburn, Inkerman, Balaclava,  
  Marathon’s godlike stand; 
But never a more heroic deed, 
And never a greater warrior breed, 
  In any war-man’s land. 
 
This is the ballad of Langemarck,  
  A story of glory and might; 
Of the vast Hun horde, and Canada’s part 
  In the great, grim fight.
Wilfred Campbell was a Canadian Poet. Many Canadian troops fought and died in the 3rd Battle of Ypres, otherwise known as Passchendaele. The fighting around Langemarck was just one part of the long bloody battle in 1917.

Thursday, November 10, 2011

T-1 week

We headed out to our new place last night to check on the progress of the house - everything is nearly finished, only the paint touch ups and the baseboards to finish - yay!

Thankfully, we've slowly started to tie up loose ends with the house, mortgage and movers from Calgary.  All the stresses are slowly dissipating and now I can concentrate on chilling with this little man and packing up our apartment - not the most fun task, but it won't be too awful.  After looking around a bit, it's really amazing how much one can accumulate in such a short while.

The funny thing is, this apartment is the first place that Pete and I were able to live together, and although we were only here for 11 months, I've been here longer than anywhere else since joining the military.  Hopefully once we move, we'll stay put for a good couple of decades.

I should also mention a big thank you to everyone back in Calgary who is packing up all my stuff and meeting with the movers - that's not a fun task either.  Once it all arrives, I think we'll have a great time going through all the boxes and getting reacquainted with all my belongings / all the extra stuff my mom threw into the mix.

Just for fun I thought I would leave you with a picture that Pete was pretty excited to take.  Apparently William has followed in his Father's footsteps and has begun studying Arnold's Encyclopedia of Body Building - like Father, like Son.

Sunday, October 23, 2011

The Grand Entrance

I've been re-assured by my Doctor, the labour and delivery nurses who saw me through the 44 hour ordeal, the whole surgical team, and all the post delivery nurses that I have the worst delivery story they have experience in a long while....

Not quite the plan I had envisioned - but in any case, it is over, I am home at last, and our little one is here - he (along with Pete and I) is happy as a clam, and undeniably (to us anyways, but we are understandably biased) he is the cutest thing we have ever laid our eyes on.

Without further ado - our darling William

Thursday, October 6, 2011

A theory

I think I've figured it out, why our little once hasn't made his/her appearance.  Although my decided due date is tomorrow (after being changed from the 17th, to the 10th and then finally tomorrow) I was convinced that he/she was coming early - I even bet on the 29th in my baby pool, and my husband bet on the 1st - oops!

Anyways, as I sit about my apartment (on sick leave for the past 3 weeks - a blood pressure thing) I've come to have more positive feelings about where I live.  Originally, I was rather unhappy with my apartment - the location was awesome, the amount of space was also awesome, however the kitchen and bathroom left something to be desired.  But hey, when your husband has 2 days to find a place to live while your house is bring built, somethings are less important.  As I was saying, since I've been home, and Pete works from home 4 days a week, we've had a great time cooking, cleaning, getting things organized for our new arrival - it's become more of a home, I'm almost sad that we get to leave in 1 month and 11 days.  But my theory regarding why this little one won't come out is because he/she would rather live in the house and not our 1 bedroom apartment....

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Still nothing

Because Heather put it so eloquently  (she is due today, me on friday) - head over and read the post on being 40 weeks pregnant.

I've had my share of texts / facebook messages / bb messages / phone calls all inquiring about the status of Baby S - all well meaning and all nice, but no, nothing yet and yes, I will make sure to call everyone once he/she arrives.

Besides just wanting to hold / meet one wee one, I seriously cannot wait to

  • sleep on something other than my aching hips (ie: my back)
  • eat sushi, soft cheese and prosciutto
  • bend down to pick something up
  • have my hands back (swelling + carpel tunnel = useless appendages)
  • not have heartburn all the time
  • wearing all sorts of shoes - not just sandals
  • get back to running (my last run was at 6 months when Pete and I visited Calgary)

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Chaos

An update on the chaos that has happened over the last week:

Last sunday night we noticed the paint where the ceiling and wall connect in the bathroom and our closet was bubbling.

Diagnosis:  3 floors up there was a water leak and it made it's way down to us....this can be fixed, but the unfortunate news is our building superintendent was taken away in an ambulance on monday and hasn't been able to come in to repair it (thank goodness he is ok, just not back at work yet).

The bad news:

  • Because it affects our closet, everything we had in there is now in random locations throughout the bedroom mixing in with all the baby stuff (which there really isn't room for to begin with), plus this makes it pretty frustrating to get dressed in the morning - thank goodness I'm not at work anymore and Pete luckily works from home. 
  • We move into our new house in exactly 2 months so the rest of our apartment is full of packing boxes and we are doing our best to contain the mess.
  • We could possibly have a newborn in the apartment any day now.... because
  • Thursday my doctor discovered that my blood pressure is elevated - normally it's low / normal but when you are 37 weeks pregnant, higher blood pressure is not a good sign.  So, I'm on sick leave and we get to pop into the hospital tomorrow and tuesday to re-check it.  If it remains high that means that we might get to meet our little one sooner than anticipated - hows that for news?
  • When he does come to fix it, we won't have a bathroom for a while, and our bedroom will be a construction zone - all things un-good when bringing home a brand new baby.
  • The longer we wait the higher the possibility of mould - also un-good for a teeny baby (not to mention us)
So there we go... the chaos that is our lives at the moment.  Fingers crossed it all comes together next week.


Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Sister #2

Oops, I am a few days late with this one.  I blame the awesome fun that is the metropolis of Sharon.  In any case - it was my older sister's birthday on Saturday...

Happy Belated Sarah - let's hope the weather held for your BBQ



Note:  Yes, this photo is ridiculously old  (that would be Sarah in the peach shirt and white shorts - Amy is the wee one beside my Dad, and I am rocking the plaid shirt).... but I know she was pretty happy that day, she bought her first horse "Indy" - he was awesome.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Sister 1

A big Happy Birthday to my little sister.... I can't be in Calgary to share a toast, or slice of cake with her so I'll have to settle with this awesome pic from our trip to Veags. 


Note: the point of this picture is to illustrate that even though she is not a large person by any right, the "adult" sized shirt in question (from a very popular american retailer) is ridiculously small on her... and I am pretty sure it was a medium or large...


This pic is shamlesly stolen from facebook - a very good friend of hers painted this, I think it's awesome.

Monday, August 29, 2011

A Month of Birthdays

This time, it's for my old roomie from Quebec City... Happy Birthday F!  Thinking of you lots today :)



Up next next week: BOTH my sisters...

Monday, August 22, 2011

Jack's last letter


A true Canadian, who loved Canada and did his very best to make it better -

Something we can all agree on, regardless of how you are politically aligned.

I believe his email quote says it best  - From the late Tommy Douglas

“Courage my friends, ‘tis never too late to build a better world.”


August 20, 2011

Toronto, Ontario

Dear Friends,

Tens of thousands of Canadians have written to me in recent weeks to wish me well. I want to thank each and every one of you for your thoughtful, inspiring and often beautiful notes, cards and gifts. Your spirit and love have lit up my home, my spirit, and my determination.
Unfortunately my treatment has not worked out as I hoped. So I am giving this letter to my partner Olivia to share with you in the circumstance in which I cannot continue.
I recommend that Hull-Aylmer MP Nycole Turmel continue her work as our interim leader until a permanent successor is elected.
I recommend the party hold a leadership vote as early as possible in the New Year, on approximately the same timelines as in 2003, so that our new leader has ample time to reconsolidate our team, renew our party and our program, and move forward towards the next election.

A few additional thoughts:
To other Canadians who are on journeys to defeat cancer and to live their lives, I say this: please don’t be discouraged that my own journey hasn’t gone as well as I had hoped. You must not lose your own hope. Treatments and therapies have never been better in the face of this disease. You have every reason to be optimistic, determined, and focused on the future. My only other advice is to cherish every moment with those you love at every stage of your journey, as I have done this summer.

To the members of my party: we’ve done remarkable things together in the past eight years. It has been a privilege to lead the New Democratic Party and I am most grateful for your confidence, your support, and the endless hours of volunteer commitment you have devoted to our cause. There will be those who will try to persuade you to give up our cause. But that cause is much bigger than any one leader. Answer them by recommitting with energy and determination to our work. Remember our proud history of social justice, universal health care, public pensions and making sure no one is left behind. Let’s continue to move forward. Let’s demonstrate in everything we do in the four years before us that we are ready to serve our beloved Canada as its next government.

To the members of our parliamentary caucus: I have been privileged to work with each and every one of you. Our caucus meetings were always the highlight of my week. It has been my role to ask a great deal from you. And now I am going to do so again. Canadians will be closely watching you in the months to come. Colleagues, I know you will make the tens of thousands of members of our party proud of you by demonstrating the same seamless teamwork and solidarity that has earned us the confidence of millions of Canadians in the recent election.

To my fellow Quebecers: On May 2nd, you made an historic decision. You decided that the way to replace Canada’s Conservative federal government with something better was by working together in partnership with progressive-minded Canadians across the country. You made the right decision then; it is still the right decision today; and it will be the right decision right through to the next election, when we will succeed, together. You have elected a superb team of New Democrats to Parliament. They are going to be doing remarkable things in the years to come to make this country better for us all.

To young Canadians: All my life I have worked to make things better. Hope and optimism have defined my political career, and I continue to be hopeful and optimistic about Canada. Young people have been a great source of inspiration for me. I have met and talked with so many of you about your dreams, your frustrations, and your ideas for change. More and more, you are engaging in politics because you want to change things for the better. Many of you have placed your trust in our party. As my time in political life draws to a close I want to share with you my belief in your power to change this country and this world. There are great challenges before you, from the overwhelming nature of climate change to the unfairness of an economy that excludes so many from our collective wealth, and the changes necessary to build a more inclusive and generous Canada. I believe in you. Your energy, your vision, your passion for justice are exactly what this country needs today. You need to be at the heart of our economy, our political life, and our plans for the present and the future.

And finally, to all Canadians: Canada is a great country, one of the hopes of the world. We can be a better one – a country of greater equality, justice, and opportunity. We can build a prosperous economy and a society that shares its benefits more fairly. We can look after our seniors. We can offer better futures for our children. We can do our part to save the world’s environment. We can restore our good name in the world. We can do all of these things because we finally have a party system at the national level where there are real choices; where your vote matters; where working for change can actually bring about change. In the months and years to come, New Democrats will put a compelling new alternative to you. My colleagues in our party are an impressive, committed team. Give them a careful hearing; consider the alternatives; and consider that we can be a better, fairer, more equal country by working together. Don’t let them tell you it can’t be done.
My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we’ll change the world.

All my very best,
Jack Layton

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Another Happy Day

Quite the Birthday week - this time it's for my Mom...


Happy Birthday Mom - wish I was there to celebrate with you - I'm raising a glass of Iced tea (no sugar) in your honour.
xoxo

Tuesday, August 16, 2011

2 for 1


A Big Ole Happy Birthday to two special ladies today....  Heather and Vivian


How is this little munchkin already 1???

Sunday, August 14, 2011

What I've been up to this summer....

Firstly, The house is progressing.... soon we'll need a key to get in :)

 Dug out basement
 Walls being poured
 Foundation!
 Framing
 Checking out the mudroom
 We have 2 stories of Great Room
 Et Voila!  A house!


Secondly, our visit back to Calgary - our last until next year, and our last with just the two of us!

 Pete's first visit to Spruce Meadows 
 With my Mom - you can just see the belly
 Ronnalie and I always go to Spruce Meadows together
 Pete's frist Calgary Stampede - The Rodeo
 The Chucks

Back in the NCR...
Pete in heaven - Gatineau Park

 Vivian's baptism - can't believe she is running already!

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

A Wednesday Morning Funny

WAL-MART SENIOR GREETER
 
You just have to appreciate this one.  Young people forget that we old people had a career before we retired......
  Right-click here to download pictures. To help protect your privacy, Outlook prevented automatic download of this picture from the Internet.

Charley, a new retiree-greeter at Wal-Mart, just couldn't seem to get to work on time. Every day he was 5, 10, 15 minutes late. But he was a good worker, really tidy, clean-shaven, sharp-minded and a real credit to the company and obviously demonstrating their "Older Person Friendly" policies.

  One day the boss called him into the office for a talk.

   "Charley, I have to tell you, I like your work ethic, you do a bang-up job when you finally get here; but your being late so often is quite bothersome."

   "Yes, I know boss, and I am working on it."

   "Well good, you are a team player. That's what I like to hear.  

  Yes sir, I understand your concern and I will try harder.

   Seeming puzzled, the manager went on to comment,  I know you're retired from the Armed Forces. What did they say to you there if you showed up in the morning late so often?"

   The old man looked down at the floor, then smiled.  He chuckled quietly, then said with a grin,

"They usually saluted and said, Good morning, Admiral, can I get your coffee, sir?